Latest Pema Chodron Quotes from Interviews

• In tonglen practice, when we see or feel suffering, we  breathe in with the notion of completely feeling it, accepting it, and owning it. Then we breathe out, radiating compassion, lovingkindness, freshness - anything that encourages relaxation and openness.  So you're training in softening, rather than tightening, your heart. In this practice, it's not uncommon to find yourself blocked, because you come face to face with your own fear, resistance, or whatever your personal "stuckness" happens to be at that moment.

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  Heart, Compassion, Practice

• In the end, that's what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.

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  Needs, Kind, Ends

• Tonglen is a way for you to be with people who need you - beginning with yourself.

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  Personas, Necesidades, Camino

• Tonglen dissolves your solid sense of "I'm the wise person, I'm going to help this poor, unfortunate loser."

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  Wise, Helping, Loser

• When people are hurting, what they really need is someone who is fully there for them - not someone who is condescending or officious. The only way for you to be there for them is by facing your fear or anger, whatever feelings cause you to shut down.

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  Hurt, People, Feelings

• Many people hope a spiritual practice will let them avoid what they are ashamed of. But when you hide something from yourself, you are going to project it onto your world. You continually find it in others and it becomes the source of prejudices and dogmatic views. On top of that, you feel bad about yourself, because you aren't the loving, open-minded, "spiritual" person you'd like to be.

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  Spiritual, Views, Practice

• Si ves a una persona sin hogar en la calle y necesita comida, alojamiento o atención médica, si puedes dárselo, hazlo. Pero al mismo tiempo, trabaja con tonglen, porque así es como empiezas a disolver la barrera entre tú y ellos.

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  Dar, Necesita, Atención

• So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.

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  Spiritual, Real, Healing

• Tonglen practice begins to dissolve the illusion that each of us is alone with this personal suffering that no one else can understand.

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  Practice, Suffering, Illusion

• If seeing that other person's pain brings up your fear or anger or confusion (which often happens), just start doing tonglen for yourself and all the other people who are stuck in the very same way.

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  Pain, People, Confusion

• You see, there really is no separation between you and everyone else.

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  Separación

• Esta es la tendencia de todos los seres vivos: evitar el dolor y aferrarse al placer.

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  Dolor, Placer, Tendencias

• Una forma muy poderosa y eficaz de trabajar con esta tendencia a alejar el dolor y aferrarse al placer es la práctica del tonglen. En la práctica del tonglen, cuando vemos o sentimos sufrimiento, inspiramos con la noción de sentirlo completamente, aceptarlo y poseerlo.

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  Dolor, Poder, Práctica

• Each of us has a "soft spot": the place in our experience where we feel vulnerable and tender. This soft spot is inherent in appreciation and love, and it is equally inherent in pain.

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  Appreciation, Pain, And Love

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