John M. Gottman Quotes

• In order to get to a healthier and more productive place, we need to give up our fear of conflict, turmoil and resistance.

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  Renunciar, Orden, Necesidades

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• I believe we're going to find that respect and affection are essential to all relationships working and contempt destroys them.

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  Love, Trust, Respect

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• Admit when you're wrong. Shut up when you're right.

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  Cállate

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• You don't have to be interesting. You have to be interested.

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  Interesting, Ironic

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• The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse predict an ailing marriage: Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling and Contempt. The worst of these is contempt.

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  Four Horsemen Of The Apocalypse, Criticism, Worst

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• In a good relationship, people get angry, but in a very different way. The Marriage Masters see a problem a bit like a soccer ball. They kick it around. It's 'our' problem.

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  Marriage, Soccer, People

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• Marriages are much more likely to succeed when the couple experiences a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative interactions whereas when the ratio approaches 1 to 1, marriages are more likely to end in divorce.

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  Couple, Divorce, Being Positive

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• Thus, the critical dimension in understanding whether a marriage will work or not, becomes the extent to which the male can accept the influence of the woman he loves and become socialized in emotional communication.

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  Communication, Emotional, Understanding

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• Bid for connection: Each of our daily interactions with another person.

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  Connections, Interaction, Persons

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• When a couple gets to the last stage, one or both partners may have an affair. But an affair is usually a symptom of a dying marriage, not the cause. The end of that marriage could have been predicted long before either spouse strayed.

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  Couple, Long, Dying

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• We move in response to our conversation partner’s face, and our brain also fires as we move those muscles and stirs the passions. Paralyzing the face is idiotic.

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  Moving, Passion, Fire

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• I liken an affair to the shattering of a Waterford crystal vase. You can glue it back together, but it will never be the same again.

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  Together, Glue, Vases

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• Gay and lesbian relationships operate on essentially the same principles as heterosexual relationships

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  Gay, Principles, Marriage Equality

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