Henry Cloud Citas

• Whatever's happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don't treat it like it's the whole story. Keep writing the story.

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  Writing, Long, Stories

  Twitter post from Aug 3, 2013

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• Cambiamos nuestro comportamiento cuando el dolor de seguir igual es mayor que el dolor de cambiar. Las consecuencias nos proporcionan el dolor que nos motiva a cambiar.

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  Inspiración, motivación, cambio

  FaceBook post by Henry Cloud from Dec 22, 2016

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• A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.

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  Doe, Tests, Love Respect

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• Para pasar al siguiente nivel siempre hay que poner fin a algo, dejarlo atrás y seguir adelante. El crecimiento exige que sigamos adelante. Sin la capacidad de poner fin a las cosas, las personas se quedan estancadas, sin llegar a ser lo que están destinadas a ser, sin alcanzar nunca todo lo que sus talentos y capacidades deberían permitirles.

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  Moving, People, Leaving

  Henry Cloud (2011). “Necessary Endings: The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move Forward”, p.7, Harper Collins

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• When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform... sends fuel to the brain.

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  Brain, Fuel, Able

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• Cuando empezamos a poner límites a las personas que queremos, ocurre algo muy duro: les duele. Puede que sientan un agujero donde antes tapabas su soledad, su desorganización o su irresponsabilidad económica. Sea lo que sea, sentirán una pérdida. Si les quieres, te resultará difícil verlo. Pero, cuando estés tratando con alguien que está sufriendo, recuerda que tus límites son necesarios para ti y útiles para él. Si le has permitido ser irresponsable, tus límites pueden empujarle hacia la responsabilidad.

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  Hurt, Responsibility, Loss

  FaceBook post by Henry Cloud from Mar 03, 2016

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• The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.

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  Trying, Doe, Fool

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• You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do.

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  Attempting, Grows

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• Hay una diferencia entre soledad y aislamiento. Uno está conectado y el otro no. La soledad repone, el aislamiento disminuye.

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  Differences, Solitude, Isolation

  Twitter post from Feb 19, 2015

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• La persona madura satisface las exigencias de la vida, mientras que la persona inmadura exige que la vida satisfaga sus exigencias.

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  Mature Person, Immature, Demand

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• In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.

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  Two, Leader, Ends

  Henry Cloud (2013). “Boundaries for Leaders: Results, Relationships, and Being Ridiculously in Charge”, p.12, Harper Collins

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• Los límites consisten básicamente en proporcionar estructura, y la estructura es esencial para construir cualquier cosa que prospere.

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  Essentials, Boundaries, Building

  Source: tonymorganlive.com

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• El corazón humano buscará ser conocido, comprendido y conectado por encima de todo. Si no conectas, los que te importan encontrarán a alguien que lo haga.

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  Heart, Care, Connected

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• Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.

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  Love, Perception, Age

  Henry Cloud, John Townsend (2002). “Boundaries in Marriage”, p.24, Zondervan

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• When we ask we are owning our needs. Asking for love, comfort or understanding is a transaction between two people. You are saying: I have a need. It's not your problem. It's not your responsibility. You don't have to respond, but I'd like something from you.
  This frees the other person to connect with you freely and without obligation. When we own that our needs are our responsibility we allow others to love us because we have something to offer. Asking is a far cry from demanding. When we demand love, we destroy it.

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  Responsabilidad, Dos, Personas

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• The sad thing is that many of us come to Christ because we are sinners, and then spend the rest of our lives trying to pretend that we are not!

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  Trying, Christ, Our Lives

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• When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.

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  Wise, Light, Trying

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• There is a big difference between hurt and harm. We all hurt sometimes in facing hard truths, but it makes us grow. It can be the source of huge growth. That is not harmful. Harm is when you damage someone. Facing reality is usually not a damaging experience, even though it can hurt.

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  Hurt, Reality, Differences

  Henry Cloud (2011). “Necessary Endings: The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move Forward”, p.21, Harper Collins

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• Todo tiene estaciones, y tenemos que ser capaces de reconocer cuándo ha pasado el tiempo de algo y ser capaces de pasar a la siguiente estación. Todo lo que está vivo también requiere poda, que es una gran metáfora de los finales.

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  Moving, Pruning, Alive

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• When we can't hold back, or set boundaries, on what comes from our lips, our words are in charge-not us. But we are still responsible for those words. Our words do not come from somewhere outside of us, as if we were a ventriloquist's dummy. They are the product of our hearts. Our saying, "I didn't mean that," is probably better translated, "I didn't want you to know I thought that about you." We need to take responsibility for our words. "But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken" (Matt. 12:36).

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  Mean, Responsibility, Heart

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• Para que el carácter de alguien crezca, tiene que estar libre de ataques internos. Las caídas nunca han impedido que los niños se desarrollen. Pero que les griten, les critiquen y les menosprecien puede detenerles de por vida.

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  Children, Fall, Character

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• If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.

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  Personas, Juntos, Necesidades

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• If you continue to blame other people for “making” you feel guilty, they still have power over you, and you are saying that you will only feel good when they stop doing that. You are giving them control over your life. Stop blaming other people.

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  Gente, Dar, Sentirse Bien

  Henry Cloud, John Townsend (2008). “Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No”, p.275, Zondervan

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• Si quieres estar sano, tienes que rodearte de un grupo de personas que se estén poniendo sanas y tienes que estar conectado a una comunidad que esté haciendo lo que tú quieres hacer.

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  Personas, Comunidad, Salud

  "The secret to making New Year's resolutions stick" by Henry Cloud, www.foxnews.com. December 29, 2012.

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• Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.

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  Pain, Giving, Consequence

  Henry Cloud, John Townsend (2009). “Boundaries with Kids: When to Say Yes, How to Say No”, p.57, Harper Collins

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