Shefali Tsabary Quotes

• A conscious parent is not one who seeks to fix her child or seek to produce or create the 'perfect' child. This is not about perfection. The conscious parent understands that is journey has been undertaken, this child has been called forth to 'raise the parent' itself. To show the parent where the parent has yet to grow. This is why we call our children into our lives.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Children, Journey, Perfect

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• [I'm a conscious parent when I] believe that my child is here to teach me as much about myself and how I need to grow, as I am here to teach them.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Niños, Creer, Padres

  Source: www.chicagonow.com

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• Conscious parenting is a new paradign shift in the way we look at our roles as parents. It's turning the spot light away from fixing the child and managing the child, obsession with all things that have to do with the child and the child centric approach and really focusing on the evolution of the parent. It about fully understanding that unless the parent has raised themselves to a certain level of emotional integration and maturity, they will really not be able to do true service to the child's spirit.

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  Children, Maturity, Emotional

  Source: www.chicagonow.com

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• If you want to enter into a state of pure connection with your child, you can achieve this by setting aside any sense of superiority.

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  Children, Connections, Want

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• El paradigma tradicional de la crianza ha sido muy jerárquico, el padre sabe más y muy vertical. La crianza consciente derriba [este paradigma] y crea esta reciprocidad, esta circularidad en la que padre e hijo se sirven mutuamente y en la que, de hecho, quizá el hijo podría ser incluso más que un gurú para el padre .... enseñándole cómo necesita crecer, enseñándole a entrar en el momento presente como sólo los niños saben hacer.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Children, Teaching, Top Down

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• Cuando se es padre, es crucial darse cuenta de que no se está criando a un "mini yo", sino a un espíritu que palpita con su propia firma. Por eso es importante separar quién eres tú de quién es cada uno de tus hijos. Los niños no son nuestros para poseerlos o adueñarnos de ellos. Cuando sabemos esto en lo más profundo de nuestra alma, adaptamos nuestra crianza a sus necesidades, en lugar de moldearlos para que se ajusten a las nuestras.

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  Children, Parent, Soul

  "The Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children". Book by Shefali Tsabary, November 1, 2010.

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• La vida es para experimentarla, no para luchar contra ella, huir de ella o comprometerse a medias. Aunque queramos hacer cambios en el futuro, ser consciente es estar con una experiencia mientras se desarrolla, en lugar de pensar en cómo nos gustaría cambiarla. Tomar las riendas de nuestra vida para cambiar la calidad de nuestras experiencias en el futuro viene después de una experiencia.

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  Correr, Pensar, Desear

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• Life doesn't happen to us, but happens with us.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Sucede

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• [Soy un padre consciente cuando me alejo de las tácticas de control basadas en el miedo -castigos, gritos y amenazas- y busco formas más iluminadas de crear límites con mi hijo.

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  Children, Yelling, Punishment

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• I think the main benefit is that much of the traditional parenting that's being carried out today is so fear based and while the parent thinks they're in control they're really being ruled by fear. Everything is connected to fear.

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  Thinking, Parent, Benefits

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• [I'm a conscious parent when I] believe that my child matters more than their relationship to academics or success.

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  Niños, Creer, Padres

  Source: www.chicagonow.com

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• We can teach children about natural consequences and cause and effect of their relationships which is really a mirror of what happens in nature.

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  Children, Mirrors, Causes

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• I'm a conscious parent when I believe... a parent's presence in their child's life is of paramount value and provides the foundation for their sense of worth.

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  Niños, Creer, Padres

  "Evolving From Control to Connection Parenting". Interview with Allison Sutter, www.chicagonow.com. October 13, 2015.

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• There is no universal template that can be applied to everybody. So everyone kind of enter the process in their own way, on their own time.

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  Way, Kind, Process

  Source: www.chicagonow.com

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• The child is free to live out their own destiny.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Niños, Destino

  "Evolving From Control to Connection Parenting". Interview with Allison Sutter, www.chicagonow.com. October 13, 2015.

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• Children are way more articulate, way more connected to their rights, and they want to be fully participating, empowered members of society but we have to release and we have to let go. We have to allow children to enter their self-governance and their state of empowered presence.

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  Letting Go, Children, Rights

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• The more you focus on connection the more free you are on one hand and the more free you can be because the child does feel authentically connected to their destiny.

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  Children, Destiny, Hands

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• Parents who engage in this kind of [conscious] parenting understand the power of being present being mindful to take the time to build connection understanding that this foundation is the bedrock of all later self-worth, self-esteem and self-actualization.

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  Self Esteem, Self Worth, Parent

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• The principal task is to put spiritual foundations under both our child's life and our own. This triggers a shift in the elemental way in which we relate to our children, with the result that their behavior automatically falls in line as they become aware of, and true to, who they really are. Behavioral changes are an outgrowth of a shift in the relationship.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Spiritual, Children, Fall

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• The Children's Justice Campaign reminds us of our sacred obligation as adults to raise ourselves into consciousness so that our children may thrive.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Children, Justice, Adults

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• The pressure we put on ourselves to produce this perfect... operatic... version of ourselves really puts an inordinate amount of stress and tension on us.

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  Stress, Perfect, Pressure

  "Evolving From Control to Connection Parenting". Interview with Allison Sutter, www.chicagonow.com. October 13, 2015.

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• Now when you transfer into the conscious parenting paradigm, you have to release those pressures and those fears... you actually think into the very ordinary but profound moment to moment connection to your children and you do away with those extraneous attachments to achievement or beauty or wealth or success. And while those things have their place, they don't overwhelm or override the life of the parent and child. Your life is actually suddenly liberated.

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  Children, Thinking, Attachment

  "Evolving From Control to Connection Parenting". Interview with Allison Sutter, www.chicagonow.com. October 13, 2015.

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• When we prioritize and focus... and that becomes the anchor... the relationship becomes the anchor... and it trumphs everything else... than it's at once freeing and anxiety relieving... because the connection itself feeds empowerment and self-worth and self-esteem so it takes away the anxiety of raising a child.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Children, Self Esteem, Self Worth

  "Evolving From Control to Connection Parenting". Interview with Allison Sutter, www.chicagonow.com. October 13, 2015.

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• I think we're seeing that the way we've done parenting cannot be sustainable in this generation, for sure.

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  Thinking, This Generation, Generations

  Source: www.chicagonow.com

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• Freedom to really prioritize and really zone into what really matters which is the parent-child connection.

  Shefali Tsabary

  Children, Parent, Connections

  "Evolving From Control to Connection Parenting". Interview with Allison Sutter, www.chicagonow.com. October 13, 2015.

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