Tian Dayton Quotes

• We forgive, if we are wise, not for the other person, but for ourselves. We forgive, not to erase a wrong, but to relieve the residue of the wrong that is alive within us. We forgive because it is less painful than holding on to resentment. We forgive because without it we condemn ourselves to repeating endlessly the very trauma or situation that hurt us so. We forgive because ultimately it is the smartest action to take on our own behalf. We forgive because it restores to us a sense of inner balance.

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  Forgiveness, Wise, Hurt

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• Parte de lo que hace traumática una situación es no hablar de ella. Hablar reduce los síntomas del trauma. Cuando no hablamos del trauma, seguimos siendo analfabetos emocionales. Nuestros sentimientos más poderosos se quedan sin nombre y sin palabras.

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  Powerful, Talking, Silence

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• Suffering is to the heart and soul as tears are to the eyes, cleansing and expelling toxicity from the inner system. When we do not allow ourselves to feel appropriate pain, we move into a sort of non-experience. We watch life rather than live it; we look but never get too close.

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  Pain, Moving, Heart

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• Above all, anger needs to be felt so it can be talked through, understood and integrated, rather than acted out. In this way, it cleanses the self.

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  Anger, Self, Needs

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• All the wisdom in the world cannot put in one's heart the love one yearned for as a small child.

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  Children, Heart, World

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• Accumulating years in the act of living is no guarantee of maturity. In fact, it is possible to be born, grow old and die without ever maturing.

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  Maturity, Years, Guarantees

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• Only when we stop holding others accountable for all of our troubles can we truly be free.

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  Responsibility, Blame, Trouble

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• Neural repatterning comes as we enter into and sustain new types of relationships that allow us to reregulate our sense impressions slowly and over time.

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  Type, Impression

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• Shame is quicksand on the path to soul.

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  Soul, Path, Shame

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• We live in a culture that paces itself to the speed of machines. We are trying like good little robots to match our speed with theirs. Humans cannot move at the same rate as machines. When we attempt to, we lose contact with our own humanness.

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  Moving, Trying, Robots

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• The family is both mystery and reality; it houses our bodies and our spirits.

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  Family, Reality, House

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• There is no wisdom without mastery over the mystery of our internal world, the world that opens the door to understanding others.

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  Doors, Understanding, Mastery

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• Our limbic system sets the mind's emotional tone and stores our highly charged emotional memories.

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  Memories, Emotional, Mind

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