Daphne Merkin Quotes

• Naturally, our own irrational demands strike us as having the force of needs, while other people's needs strike us as capricious indulgences.

  Daphne Merkin

  People, Needs, Demand

  Daphne Merkin (2014). “The Fame Lunches: On Wounded Icons, Money, Sex, the Brontës, and the Importance of Handbags”, p.229, Macmillan

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• I always look to people and think whether they seem well-loved or not well-loved. That's one way I walk through life. Do they have some core that withstands the ravages? Everyone gets pulled down in life and has good moments. But it always interests me how people withstand things.

  Daphne Merkin

  Pensamiento, Personas, Momentos

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• Por otra parte, como saben quienes la padecen, la depresión intratable crea un planeta propio, en gran medida impermeable a la influencia de los demás, excepto como presencias en la sombra, que te instan a salir y reincorporarte al mundo, ver una película, salir a comer algo, animarte.

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  Cheer, Suffering, Shadow

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• Todo me parecía frágil y recién llegado, pero por ahora, al menos, mi depresión había dado un paso atrás, dejándome espacio para avanzar. Había olvidado lo que era estar sin ella, y por un momento vacilé, preguntándome cómo me reconocería. Sabía con certeza que volvería, acercándose sigilosamente a mí cuando no estuviera mirando, pero mientras tanto había vislumbres de luz si me quedaba y me aferraba a la perspectiva a largo plazo. Era una oportunidad que parecía merecer la pena.

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  Moving, Light, Long

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• Hay algo obstinado en las familias, en las infelices en particular: se sobreviven a sí mismas, y luego siguen viviendo.

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  Family, Unhappy, Stubborn

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• How much simpler it would be all around if you could put your mind in a cast, like a broken ankle, and elicit murmurings of sympathy from other people instead of skepticism (“You can’t really be feeling as bad as all that”) and in some cases outright hostility (“Maybe if you stopped thinking about yourself so much ”).

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  Thinking About You, People, Broken

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• No bill of sexual rights can hold its own against the lawless, untamable landscape of the erotic imagination.

  Daphne Merkin

  Sex, Rights, Imagination

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• My mother is the source of my unease in the world and thus the only person who can make me feel at home in the world.

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  Mother, Home, World

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• Much as I try to disguise myself, there is never a time when I'm not aware of being overweight.

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  Trying, Overweight, Disguise

  Daphne Merkin (2014). “The Fame Lunches: On Wounded Icons, Money, Sex, the Brontës, and the Importance of Handbags”, p.104, Farrar, Straus and Giroux

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• It might pay to be resilient, if this was all being vulnerable and skinless got you. People didn’t stop and cluck over damage done unless you made it worth their while. Indeed, maybe it was time to rethink this whole salvation business. Or maybe I was less desperate, less teetering on the edge than I cared to admit. Now, that was a refreshing possibility.

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  People, Done, Might

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• I see depression as an exponentially developed version of a human condition. Meaning I always think in the end it's humanizing. People who never suffer from depression I find suspect. I assume Donald Trump is not a sufferer from depression.

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  Pensamiento, Gente, Sufrimiento

  Source: www.bostonglobe.com

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• Everyone lies about sex, more or less, to themselves if not to others, to others if not to themselves, exaggerating its importance or minimizing its pull.

  Daphne Merkin

  Sex, Lying, Importance

  Daphne Merkin (1997). “Dreaming of Hitler: Passions & Provocations”, Crown

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• It was through reading that I discovered the crucial, even sacrosanct place the rituals of drinking held in the American imagination - the ingenious way alcohol seemed to lubricate everything from onerous chitchat to self-conscious sexual advances.

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  Reading, Drinking, Self

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• I think the experience of depression that I most think remains true throughout the years is it's very isolating. That to me is its strongest quality. That you're alone in a room, that you're cut off, you're just sort of stuck with it. It puts up a wall.

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  Pared, Corte, Pensamiento

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