André Aciman Quotes

• If there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, don't snuff it out, don't be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others forget us sooner than we'd want to be forgotten is no better. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!

  André Aciman

  Pain, Rip, Night

  "Call me by your name". Book by André Aciman, January 23, 2007.

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• Me detuve un segundo. Si te acuerdas de todo, quería decirte, y si de verdad eres como yo, entonces, antes de irte mañana, o cuando estés a punto de cerrar la puerta del taxi y ya te hayas despedido de todos los demás y no quede nada que decir en esta vida, entonces, sólo por esta vez, vuélvete hacia mí, aunque sea en broma, o como una ocurrencia tardía, que lo habría significado todo para mí cuando estábamos juntos, y, como hacías entonces, mírame a la cara, sostenme la mirada, y llámame por tu nombre...".

  André Aciman

  Goodbye, Doors, Names

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• All that remains is dreammaking and strange remembrance.

  André Aciman

  Remembrance, Strange, All That Remains

  André Aciman (2008). “Call Me by Your Name: A Novel”, p.199, Macmillan

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• Most of us can't help but live as though we've got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But there's only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it. Right now there's sorrow. I don't envy the pain. But I envy you the pain. (p. 225)

  André Aciman

  Pain, Heart, Two

  André Aciman (2008). “Call Me by Your Name: A Novel”, p.225, Macmillan

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• Perhaps we were friends first and lovers second. But then perhaps this is what lovers are.

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  Firsts, Lovers

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• De repente me di cuenta de que estábamos de prestado, que el tiempo siempre es prestado y que la agencia de préstamos cobra su prima precisamente cuando estamos menos preparados para pagar y necesitamos pedir más prestado.

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  Agency, Needs, Pay

  André Aciman (2008). “Call Me by Your Name: A Novel”, p.162, Macmillan

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• No one starts as a self-hater. But rack up all of your mistakes and take a large enough number of wrong turns in life and soon you stop trying to forgive yourself. Everywhere you look you find shame or failure staring back.

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  Mistake, Self, Numbers

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• Whoever said the soul and the body met in the pineal gland was a fool. It's the asshole, stupid.

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  Stupid, Soul, Body

  André Aciman (2008). “Call Me by Your Name: A Novel”, p.141, Macmillan

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• Many critics speak about coming-of-age love, about initiation, about young libido, and so forth. I've never seen it only this way. We continue to examine things ever so minutely, we interpret obsessively. We may be less bold at 40 than we were at 17, but we're familiar with the road map; we know the bumps in the road; we recognize the sudden turns, the one-way streets, and the dead ends. And we are hurt just the same as when we were teenagers.

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  Hurt, Teenager, Speak

  Fuente: www.glamour.com

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• Si pudiera tenerlo así en mis sueños todas las noches de mi vida, apostaría toda mi vida a los sueños y acabaría con el resto.

  André Aciman

  Dream, Night, Done

  André Aciman (2008). “Call Me by Your Name: A Novel”, p.109, Macmillan

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• As we walked, I began to wonder what the opposite of molting was and why, unlike the body, which sheds everything, the soul cannot let go but compiles and accumulates, growing annual rings around the things it wants and dreams and remembers

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  Letting Go, Dream, Opposites

  André Aciman (2011). “False Papers”, p.61, Macmillan

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• Besides the fear of ending up with the totally wrong person, the first time between two persons is underscored by two things: desire and awkwardness. The awkwardness of the first time when two individuals touch each other is never lost on the young...or the old.

  André Aciman

  Desire, Individual, First Time

  Fuente: www.glamour.com

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• At one hundred, surely you learn to overcome loss and grief—or do they hound you till the bitter end?

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  Grief, Loss, Overcoming

  André Aciman (2008). “Call Me by Your Name: A Novel”, p.74, Macmillan

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• There is always going to be a risk in a new love, a difficulty to be overcome, and more so considering all the challenges facing gay love, particularly in an adolescent. The desired other person could turn out to be a wolf in sheep's clothing, could hurt us, could even ruin us. But the risk has to be taken.

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  Hurt, Taken, Gay

  Fuente: www.glamour.com

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• My love stories are about people who are reluctant to actualize what they so desperately want. They are timid, cautious, but eventually they dare to speak. My characters are not only hesitant; they are ambivalent about which way their libido flows: toward men or women? They are fluid in their sexuality, and this ambivalence says more about how we think about sex today than, say, Tinder. And this is a truly modern idea: Most of us don't know who we are sexually.

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  Carácter, Hombres, Pensamiento

  Fuente: www.glamour.com

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• And on that evening when we grow older still we'll speak about these two young men as though they were two strangers we met on the train and whom we admire and want to help along. And we'll want to call it envy, because to call it regret would break our hearts.

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  Regret, Heart, Men

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• ¿Seguiría sintiéndome así al salir de la fiesta esta noche? ¿O encontraría formas astutas de aferrarme a defectos menores para que empezaran a molestarme y me permitieran apagar el sueño hasta que se apagara y perdiera su brillo y, con su brillo perdido, recordarme una vez más, como siempre, que la felicidad es lo único que en nuestras vidas no pueden traer los demás?

  André Aciman

  Breakup, Dream, Party

  André Aciman (2010). “Eight White Nights: A Novel”, p.5, Farrar, Straus and Giroux

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